Wednesday, May 22, 2013

We Are Full of Light, We Are Full of Wonder

Hello, my wonderful peeps and friends. I'm sorry I've been MIA. Things are just getting incredibly (not necessarily a good thing) busy this end. I know I owe some of yall a reply comment - SEAN, I just saw you made me a Passenger on your blog...thank you and kisses! - and owe yall so much more.

When I didn't have anyone here except brands of vodka and bourbon, you were here for me. I will never forget that. Give me this week, and I will be back next weekend...starting with Weekend Dick...it seems to get this ball rolling again, I need to simply roll the ball.

Love you all.

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

BuzzFeed: 65 Books You Need to Read

Via BuzzFeed. The actual post title is "65 Books You Need to Read in Your 20s" which makes absolutely no sense. I'm almost 40 and want to read all those listed that I haven't already read...except possibly the Motley Crue memoir.

Here (above and below) are a few of the gay titles on the list.

Monday, May 13, 2013

Armistead Maupin Quote on GoodReads

Image via theguardian

“Laugh all you want and cry all you want and whistle at pretty men in the street and to hell with anybody who thinks you're a damned fool!”

Let's Get Un-Confused About Wealth Inequality in America

Via UpWorthy

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Happy Hump Day

Via Queer Heaven

Hey, y'all. Just wanted to touch base.

I haven't been posting as much on the blog, but I have no intention of ending the blog, so please just be patient with me, and hopefully soon I'll be back in a more regular fashion.

Right now with AA, genealogy, and Pride Festival, I'm really busy. Actually it is more the genealogy than anything else: I'm working on typing up the Muhlenberg County Marriages Index and that tends to be what I fill up all my free time at work - and by free time I mean anytime that a customer isn't standing right in front of me.

Hugs.

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Monday, May 6, 2013

You Call My Lord, I Cuuuu...I Mean, I Come

Via BuzzFeed: Is Benedict Cumberbatch embarrassed of the name his fandom gave themselves?

Monday Beau

Garrett Hedlund fucking Steve Buscemi in the movie adaptation of Jack Kerouac's On the Road. Kristen Stewart notwithstanding, I may have to go see this.

Friday, May 3, 2013

TGIF Boyfriend

Right now, my imaginary boyfriend is cleaning my apartment, going shopping for the amazing meal he'll cook me for lunch and supper, and picking me out the cutest lil puppy that he's going to surprise me with...and basically keeping the bed warm with his naked body. Le sigh.

Via A soft male collection

Monday, April 29, 2013

Monday Beau

Via Dudetube

Good Monday, y'all!

Saturday, April 27, 2013

Weekend Dick

Via oh yeaaah

Via a paper bird: Bradley Manning, Bayard Rustin and the perversion of Pride

Via a paper bird

I was reminded of our queer community’s collective patriotism by fast-moving happenings last night in San Francisco. To summarize: SF Pride held a vote and Bradley Manning — the gay or trans (it’s not entirely clear how Manning identifies) soldier who disseminated the great Wikileaks trove of secret US documents — was elected a Grand Marshal of this year’s shindig, which will happen in late June. There are a bunch of Grand Marshals every year, and each one gets to ride in a car during the long parade, wave at the crowd, and accept adulation. In Manning’s case,the soldier was in no position to do the accepting. Manning is under lock and key at Fort Leavenworth, facing charges including “aiding the enemy,” which under the military code can carry the death penalty. Daniel Ellsberg, the great whistleblowing opponent of the Vietnam War, agreed to join the festivities in Manning’s place.

No need; within hours the board of SF Pride stepped in and rescinded the honor. Lisa Williams, the board president, issued a statement. “I am against honoring Bradley Manning,” she said, “as he was a traitor to the good old United States of America. If we all had felt the way he did back in the Forties, Hitler would have ruled the world.”

Oh...I’m sorry again. It’s early in the AM where I am, and I haven’t had coffee, and I keep screwing up. What Lisa Williams actually said was just about the same, but with slightly different wording. From her statement:

Bradley Manning will not be a grand marshal in this year’s San Francisco Pride celebration. His nomination was a mistake and should never have been allowed to happen...[E]ven the hint of support for actions which placed in harms way the lives of our men and women in uniform — and countless others, military and civilian alike — will not be tolerated by the leadership of San Francisco Pride. It is, and would be, an insult to every one, gay and straight, who has ever served in the military of this country.

I get confused, you see, because Lisa Williams — in addition to being “president and owner of One Source Consulting, a firm which does political consulting, ” and the former “Northern California deputy political director for the ‘No on 8′” gay-marriage campaign — is also the chair of the political action committee of the Bayard Rustin LGBT Coalition. That’s an estimable group that tries to promote black LGBT political participation in the Bay Area. And the quote above, the one about Hitler and the traitor — well, it was actually about Bayard Rustin; so you can see how I mixed them up. Rustin, if you remember, was one of the great figures of 20th-century America: a pacifist, a war resister, an icon of civil disobedience, and the key organizer of the 1963 March on Washington. (Also a gay man). Rustin spent three years in Lewisburg Penitentiary as a conscientious objector during the Second World War. The quote (slightly tweaked) came from a citizen of West Chester, PA, back in 2002, who objected to naming a school after Bayard Rustin. After all, the traitor broke US law, encouraged others to do likewise, and opposed the military and domestic policies of the United States.

Interesting, then, that Lisa Williams works for the Bayard Rustin LGBT Coalition. Because her story shows that you can honor somebody like Rustin– indeed, even serve an organization named after him! — without caring or sharing what he believed in. Since that’s true, there’s really no reason SF Pride shouldn’t honor Bradley Manning.

Thursday, April 25, 2013

My Favorite Ella Fitzgerald Song on Her 96th Birthday

What Causes "Old Book Smell"?

Image via Hot Guys Reading (or in this case smelling) Books

Via Mental_Floss

“A combination of grassy notes with a tang of acids and a hint of vanilla over an underlying mustiness” is how an international team of chemists describes the unique odor of old books in a study. Poetic, sure, but what causes it?

Books are made up almost entirely of organic materials: paper, ink, glue, fibers. All these materials react to light, heat, moisture, and even each other over the years, and release a number of volatile organic compounds (VOCs). While the blend of compounds released by any one book is dependent on the exact things that went into making it, there’s only so much variation in materials.

The researchers tested 72 books and found some 15 compounds that came up again and again. They were reliable markers for degradation. These include acetic acid, benzaldehyde, butanol, furfural, octanal, methoxyphenyloxime, and other chemicals with funny-sounding names. A book’s smell is also influenced by its environment and materials it encounters over the course of its life (which is why some books have hints of cigarette smoke, others smell a little like coffee, and still others, cat dander).

You can’t judge books by their covers, but the researchers think you can learn a lot from their odor. They're developing a method for determining the condition and age of books and other paper documents by using special “sniffing” equipment to analyze the blend of VOCs. They hope that this study of "degradomics" can help libraries, museums, and archives assess and monitor the health of their collections and store and care for them accordingly.

Brain Pickings: 7 essential books on Optimism

After the events of the past week...well, fuck that...even without bombings and explosions, these are needed.

Via Brain Pickings

Every once in a while, we all get burned out. Sometimes, charred. And while a healthy dose of cynicism and skepticism may help us get by, it’s in those times that we need nothing more than to embrace life’s promise of positivity with open arms. Here are seven wonderful books that help do just that with an arsenal ranging from the light visceral stimulation of optimistic design to the serious neuroscience findings about our proclivity for the positive.
  1. The Little Prince - Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
  2. Learned Optimism: how to change your mind and your life - Martin Seligman
  3. Everything Is Going to Be OK
  4. The Optimism Bias: a tour of the irrationally positive brain - Tali Sharot
  5. An Optimist's Tour of the Future: one curious man sets out to answer "What's next?" - Mark Stevenson
  6. Live Now: artful messages of hope, happiness & healing - Eric Smith & Friends
  7. The Tao of Pooh - Benjamin Hoff